Never neglect yourself for even a second. I hope you find this helpful. There should be something for everyone here.
Relaxation
- a hot bath with salts and candles
- gentle stretching
- take a quick shower
- closing your eyes and being quiet for a few minutes
- chamomile or peppermint or jasmine tea
Social
- call a close friend & chat about nothing in particular
- write a letter or postcard (I’m talking snail mail)
- write that email you’ve been putting off
- unplug yourself from social media for a bit
- go out for coffee or tea with a pal
Organization
- make a to-do list for when you’re feeling better
- set priorities so as not to overwhelm yourself
- clear off your workspace for when you’re ready
- clean out your closet and/or drawers
- sort through your papers for school
Body
- try some yoga poses (learn some from youtube)
- go for a walk, long or short, just so long as your heart gets pumping
- play outside with your dog if you’re lucky enough to have one
- somersaults, jumping jacks, push ups, cartwheels, etc.
- dance vigorously to your favorite music
Skincare & hair care
- please try a face mask (heavenly)
- use that bath bomb you’ve been saving
- moisturize your body with a lovely smelling lotion
- look up a recipe for a homemade hair mask
- learn a new hairstyle from youtube or pinterest
Beauty
- remind yourself that you are beautiful, always have been, always will be
- give yourself a mani-pedi (try fun colors!)
- do your makeup as if you’re going out, just to feel glamorous
- treat yourself to something small, like a new mascara or lipstick
- get a free makeover from a store like sephora
Mental health
- if applicable, make sure you take your meds. always.
- curb the negative self talk as much as possible
- get it all out in morning pages or a journal
- find a counselor through your university or healthcare network
- just share what you’re going through with someone, anyone
Schoolwork
- you will feel better if you get at least one thing done, just a small thing
- make a list of all the assignments you have to do then put it out of sight for a while
- call a friend or contact a classmate if you need help (or your teacher/professor)
- get some new stationery, even just one pen to make you smile
- refresh your organizational system, to start over
Food
- bake something for yourself or someone you know’s favorite dessert
- bite into a crisp apple
- avoid mindless snacking so you don’t regret it later
- but you can indulge a little in your favorites
- eat fresh, home-cooked meals
Drink
- herbal tea and fruit tea (nature’s tranquilizers)
- water infused with lemon or cucumber
- fresh juice
- never underestimate a big cold glass of water
- avoid alcohol because it is a depressant
Entertainment
- put on a favorite (preferably funny) movie or show
- put on your favorite music or soundtrack
- reread a favorite book
- find a new book at the library you just can’t put down
- walk around or go about the house listening to an audiobook
De-clutter
- delete apps you no longer use
- organize your digital files
- donate clothes that don’t fit or you haven’t worn in 6 months
- go through your belongings and ask if something really brings you joy
- purge your fridge of uneaten foods and condiments
Environment
- if you have them, diffuse some essential oils (lavender and chamomile)
- get into a fresh headspace by changing your locale (the library, a coffee shop, etc)
- light some candles
- use soft, warm lighting
- spruce up your space with some low-maintenance plant friends (succulents)
Cleaning
- make your bed
- do a load of laundry
- change your sheets (they will feel crisp and awesome when you go to bed)
- sweep the floor
- do a quickly wipe down of counters
Comfort
- put on a fluffy rope or a roomy hoodie
- slippers or big fuzzy socks
- pants with an elastic waist
- perch yourself on the couch or snuggle in bed
- deep breaths
Hygiene
- wash your face
- shower
- wash your feet (if you can’t bring yourself to shower)
- change your underwear
- put on an outfit that makes you feel like a warrior
Day trips
- the lake
- the beach
- a hiking trail
- museum (don’t forget your student discount!)
- a new part of town you’ve never explored
Miscellaneous
- learn a new skill
- start studying a new language (like you’ve been meaning to)
- take a twenty minute nap
- practice gratitude
- play a video game
Things not to underestimate
- hugs
- hearing “I love you”
- saying “I love you”
- cuddling with a pet
- alone time
Things to remember
- you are not alone
- you are loved
- you will get through the worst you could imagine
- this is all temporary
- I believe in you






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